
The single most important do is to prepare concrete, quantified examples of your past work using the STAR method (Situation, Task, Action, Result). The most critical don't is to speak negatively about a former employer, colleague, or company—even if you had a terrible experience. I cannot stress this enough. Interviewers are assessing your professionalism and judgment, not just your skills. A negative comment signals potential future conflict and a lack of discretion.
From my experience, candidates who succeed are those who treat the interview as a two-way conversation rather than an interrogation.
Here is a quick breakdown of what I have seen work and what consistently fails:
| Do (Best Practice) | Don't (Common Mistake) | Why It Matters |
|---|---|---|
| Research the company’s products, culture, and recent news. | in knowing nothing about the role. | Shows genuine interest and initiative. |
| Ask thoughtful questions about team dynamics and growth. | Focus only on salary, perks, and vacation time. | Signals you are invested in the long-term contribution. |
| Dress one level above the company’s standard dress code. | Show up underdressed or overly casual. | Demonstrates respect for the process and the interviewer’s time. |
| Send a personalized thank-you email within 24 hours. | Ghost the interviewer or send a generic template. | Reinforces your interest and leaves a final positive impression. |
I have seen a candidate lose a job offer because they said, “My last boss was a micromanager and didn’t know what he was doing.” The interviewer later told me it was an immediate red flag. On the flip side, the candidate who got the job prepared three specific stories about how they saved money or improved efficiency. That is the difference. Focus on your own contributions, not on others’ shortcomings.

For me, the biggest do is to practice your answers out loud, not just in your head. It feels awkward, but it helps you catch rambling and filler words. The biggest don’t is to lie or exaggerate, even a little. It always comes out in the follow-up questions. I also think it’s a huge mistake to not prepare any questions for the interviewer. It looks like you are not interested. Just ask one or two simple things about the team or the day-to-day work. It makes a huge difference.

A do that is often overlooked is to mirror the interviewer’s energy and pace. If they are calm and formal, you should be too. If they are casual and humorous, match that tone. The biggest don’t is to interrupt them, even if you are excited or nervous. Let them finish their sentences. I also see people fail when they try to answer every question with a “perfect” story instead of just being genuine. Sometimes a simple “I haven’t faced that exact situation, but here is how I would handle it” is far more effective.

From my view, the number one do is to arrive 10 to 15 minutes early, but no earlier. Showing up too early can be as disruptive as being late. The critical don’t is to check your or smartwatch during the interview, even if you think it’s on silent. It is incredibly distracting and disrespectful. Also, do not bring coffee or food into the interview room. Spills happen, and it just looks unprofessional. Stick to a bottle of water if you need it.

I think the most underestimated do is to connect your skills directly to the company’s specific pain points mentioned in the job description. Use their exact language. The biggest don’t is to talk about salary or benefits in the first interview unless the recruiter brings it up. It makes you look transactional. One more thing: do not forget to smile and show some energy. I have seen technically brilliant candidates lose out because they came across as flat or bored. Enthusiasm is a skill, and it matters.


